The Dark Side

Have you ever thought if you were not what you are today, what would you have been?

The question come to my mind a lot of times. I believe that every man and women on this earth have a dark side and a good side. For most of us the dark side emerges only when we are angry, depressed, agitated, fed up of your life or have just some dumb luck! For us it lasts for sometime but when our situation changes we become normal. I am not saying at that we are abnormal.

You see, when a Person who is perfectly alright for the beinging of his life starts to behave amazing difficult and you are astonished to see his 'other side', You should understand that in such a case, a person's Good self is lost and the Bad self comes up...

Tell or asking yourself will help a bit, If you think that you are changing, you may think it is for the good but try to find out what others are saying... Like ask ten people that you completely rely on and tell them to give a honest answer. Think, Take two minutes to think, Was I happy earlier or am I now? Where has this behaviour brought me..

On the other side, If you see such cases in some of your loved ones or Friends.... Make sure they know what you think. Tell him or her you are changing and difficult to understand... because if you don't, if you don't they will go on detoriating and turn over to the other side.

As I told you earlier, I have seen people changing into something they are not. Reasons to this could be many things... Money, Parents, Enviroment, Bad Luck, Depression.... etc. I am no consellor, but from what I have observed from my naked eyes that is very difficult to bring such people out of such a Change, meaning turning them back into what they were before.

If you know a person who has recently started changing and you think it is wrong... tell Him/her. If it has been a while... taking such a person to a doctor is a good idea. Now please don;t think that everybody who is upset or looks different for a day needs to go a doctor. The process is slow, but if you keep an eye out for these things.... If we all keep an eye for such things, Less people will have nervous break downs, Less people will commit sucides, Less people might turn into murderers! Because it all starts from the the HEART!

I can tell you first hand, because I have seen a completly settled and Sane person become a totally different person who I never knew in my life. This Person, had a poor fate... a poor heart... a Jealous mind and a disease that was incurable. Slowly and steadily all the negative things in this person's life started to take a turn and when i met her after and year... I was lost... I thought I never new her... never heard her.Even the way she spoke was different. Many times I thought, No this couldn't have been.... but when i started to evalaute the situation.... I knew the Other Side had taken over....

When a Person is Depressed, Exhausted, has too many responsibilities a Person's other side takes over in order to reduce the stress or balance it ... the only Problem is if the Current Situation of the Person doesn't Change .... He or she starts to detoriate....

I can tell you this with total confidence.... because it happened to me.